Well it looks like my nephew went to bat for me. He spoke to my sister and she agreed that he could meet us as long as it was during the week he will be staying with his step father’s brother and not with my birth mother’s side of the family.
The secrecy still bothers me but I will take this victory! We will be meeting the second weekend in July. I am very excited and so grateful that my nephew stood his ground and my sister finally agreed. It was obviously very important to him and that makes me feel wonderful.